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Tullian Tchividijan’s Brother, Uncle Part of Ministry Statement Urging Reforms to Protect Against ‘Wolves’

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The board of the organization GRACE (Godly Response to Abuse in the Christian Environment), which includes the brother and uncle of Tullian Tchividijan, as well as the son of Ronald Reagan, has released a statement of grief overTchividijans sexual misconduct and is urging churches to implement reformation to protect againstwolves in their midst.

The GRACE board is deeply disturbed about the revelations of sexual misconduct by TullianTchividjian. As an organization that deals with the abuse of Gods lambs and the damage silencecauses, we feel compelled to speak, the statement reads.

As previously reported,Tchividijan, the grandson of Billy Graham, resigned from his role as pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church, formerly led by the late D. James Kennedy, in June of last year after admitting to having an affair with a church member.

However, Tchividijanstated that he had fallen into an inappropriate relationship in confiding with the woman about his wifes infidelity. After being hired as the Director of Ministry Development atWillow Creek Presbyterian Church in Winter Springs, he soon admitted that he actually had already been in another affair before his wife was unfaithful, and then had a second sexual relationship. He was consequently fired.

Last month, one of the women, named Rachel, came forward and stated that their sexual relationship only ended when they werecaught after Coral Ridges IT department advised that Tchividijans messagescould be read on the church server. She said thatTchividijan told the church to delete it all, but elders soon arrived at their homes to confront them about their behavior.

Rachel opined that that she had been groomed byTchividijan after attending his church in seeking healing in her marriage. She said that he began texting her a year ago, as well as a number of women, sending material at times with sexual overtones.

Each time I created distance, Tullian pursued me with more intensity, she said, stating that he love bombed her, gave promises of marriage, and used the gospelas justification.

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Two other women also came forward who had once viewedTchividijan as being a victim who slipped into impropriety out of hurt over his wifes infidelity, and stated that they are now upset to discover thatTchividijan had been lying as he had already been in an affair and then began another one. They both claimed thatTchividijan had too sent them risque texts, and have now cut off all communication out of concern over the former pastors behavior.

One of the women said thatTchividjian began yet a third relationship after being forced to step down from the pulpit and while still being married to his wife. Tchividjian went on to divorce and then married the third woman, Stacie Phillips, in August.

In response to the revelations, six pastors, two counselors and two female ministry leaders, released an open letterexpressing grief and outlining that they had once thoughtTchividjian was penitent, but no longer feel that way after hearing the other side of the story. The counselors who signed the letter, Paul Tripp and Scotty Smith, had both counseledTchividjian following his resignation, and Kevin Labby of Willow Creek Presbyterian Church was a part of the open rebuke and call to repentanceas well.

Now,Tchividjians brother and uncle, Basyle Boz Tchividjian and Emmanuel Tchividjian, are a part of a public statement expressing deep concern over the former pastors alleged behavior and are calling the Body of Christ to be more vigilant about impropriety in its midst. Michael Reagan, the son of former President Ronald Reagan, serves on the GRACE board as well.

We fear that we (the Church) have often helped wolves deceive others and hidethemselves in sheeps clothing for our own gain and comfort. In doing so we have not lovedthose who prey on Gods sheep for we have left them in their darkness and bondage, the GRACE board statement, released on Dec. 7, laments. May the fruit of this grievous sin bring a sweepingof Gods refining fire through the lives of His people across the globe.

GRACE therefore outlined a number of proposed reforms to help protect the flock, including seminary training on maintaining appropriate boundaries, rigorous screening of potential pastors, the implementation of a code of ethics and clear policies on how to deal with infringements.

Those who providepastoral counseling must read and agree to adhere to an appropriate code of ethics, suchas that promulgated by the American Association of Christian Counselors which strictlyprohibits sexual contact between pastors and those they are counseling, the organization wrote. This includes notonly prohibitions on sexual contact but sexual innuendo, sexual humor, comments onattractiveness, etc.

Clergy and other church leaders should also adhere to appropriate policies pertaining totexting and the use of social media, it said.

GRACE said that the Church must confront such issues lest those who do not learn from history be doomed to repeat it.


Although we must continue to speak against abuse within the Church, speech without action is ahollow reminder the Church has done too little for too long to protect the vulnerable, it outlined. In the midstof this most recent scandal, we pray the Churchs future will be better than our past.

Tchividjian preached as a guest at a California church in October and is scheduled to release a book through publisher David C. Cook, which says it will not pull the deal despite the latest revelations.

Tchividjian hasresponded to the womens storiesby stating, As far as things that have been said and written about me (especially recently) some of them are true and some of them are absolutely false. There is nothing I can do about any of it. I cannot correct every falsehood and I cannot go back and right every wrong thing Ive done or said.

As I have previously said both publicly and privately, I am guilty of, and I continue to grieve, some decisions Ive made, some things Ive said, and people Ive hurt throughout my entire life, but specifically in 2014 and 2015. I wish I could go back in time and do those things differently. I cant, healso said. From the bottom of my heart, I am truly sorry for the pain Ive caused and the hurt Ive induced and I humbly ask you to please forgive me.

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